CAN U TELL SHE IS FAKING?

Confronting the idea that your girl could be dramatizing, exaggerating, and to say the least, putting on an act during sex, can be a blow to any man’s ego. It’s the universal question that all men would love to know but wouldn’t dare to question. Here are a few reasons your girl may be faking it, tips on how to spot a faker and how to deal with the issue.
REASONS SHE A FAKE:

• Your lack of technique.
  Not to cramp your style even more so, but women tend to respond poorly when the right buttons aren’t being pushed…properly.
• Alcohol.
  Don’t think intoxication is always the key, because it’ll more likely put her to bed and have you resorting to taking matters into your own hand. Contrary to popular belief, when women consume alcohol they are more likely to feel drowsy rather than uninhibited and aroused.
• Anxiety/Guilt.
  The feeling of anxiety and guilt can definitely hinder your girl’s ability to have an orgasm. If she feels what she’s doing is morally wrong, then watch out, because she may try to pull a fast one on you just to get the sex over with.

SIGNS SEH SHE A FAKE:

• There’s no lubrication. (she nah nuh “glue”)
  Whenever a woman becomes aroused it is only natural for her to be lubricated. If you find yourself struggling far longer than you should to get “Mr. Long John” in and she’s moaning and groaning. Then you’ve got a problem.
• The unexpected outcry signifying an “orgasm” (nuttin nuh go so).
  A sudden “orgasmic” outburst after a long session with her seeming motionless and un-reactive is sure indicator that you’re being duped.
• Does she seem distracted?
  If you see her looking around the room and everywhere else but on you, then you need not waste your time. Chances are she’s impatiently awaiting your happy ending.

TIPS ON HOW TO SPOT IF SHE’S REALLY BEING SATISFIED:

 Here is a list of a few involuntary/voluntary reactions that should occur if she’s aroused.

• There’s an increase in temperature.
• The nipples become erect.
• The labia and clitoris becomes swollen.
• Vaginal muscles contract.
• Vaginal lubrication.

Being with a faker can be a real turn off for any guy, but then again, if you’re the self-centered type then this really wouldn’t be a bother to you. But for those who do care, according to David Strovny, an accredited Sex Educator, the best way to go about dealing with the situation is to simply find out “what she likes and how she likes it.” In other words, it is important to give her room to express what she needs to feel satisfied. Bottom-line the best ingredients for equal stimulation during sex is communication and compromise.