RESPECKMEDIA | DATING - 10 reasons she rejected you

She’s not attracted to you.
Shallow but true. Most, if not all of us, judge people based on their physical appearance/features to determine whether or not we would even bother to pursue a relationship with them. If you’re just not what she likes physically then even your silver tongue may not be enough to get you anywhere. But if you don’t mind putting in the extra effort, be prepared to work long and hard to win her over.
No one likes a sponger who still lives with his parents.
Which sane woman would want to get involved with a guy, who as an adult, still depends on his parents for every penny he has in his name. No one likes to know that their partner might just still have a curfew and who will probably end up trying to sneak them into their house while their parents are asleep in the room down the hall. This type of dependency can be a turn off.
You’re supposed to be her ‘Super Man’
Ok, so you’re at a party, a guy decides to grope you, you tell your man and he says and does nothing. This means one of three things, one, he’s lame, two, he’s afraid and three, he’s lame. If a girl senses that you’re more than likely going to be a punk when she needs you to take charge, then you’re setting yourself up for rejection. Not saying you have to be our favorite super hero all the time, but you should ensure that you do have the potential to be the hero we want you to be when we want you to be it.
“Um… I didn’t understand a word you just said.”
Some women really can’t stand guys that are stupid. If you’re constantly having problems keeping up with the conversation and she also realizes this, then you’re going to have a difficult time convincing her to give you a chance with your limited intellect.
Don’t seem too desperate.
One of the biggest mistakes guys make when they’re pursuing a woman is to actually succeed in smothering them. The best thing to do is to be yourself and try to refrain from being too overbearing. According to John J. Alexander, author of How To Become The Alpha Male, it is always important to never “ apologize, act too hard, or become uncertain.”
And you don’t have a job because?
Lack of ambition shows lack of financial stability and that can be very unsettling when she thinks about how being with you will affect and shape your future together. If you’re too lazy to get off your ass to find a job so you can support yourself, then that’s a clear indication that you wouldn’t be willing or capable to help support anyone else.
Your lack of style.
Maybe it’s the clothes you were wearing, the shoes you were in, the hairstyle you weren’t rocking or the cologne that clogged her nose. Whichever one it was, the distasteful look she gives you before you ask her out will give you a clear indication if the conversation will end in your favor before you even begin to speak.
She hates men…for now at least.
Her last boyfriend was so full of it she now thinks everything that comes out of your mouth is bull … It’s not your fault she’s bitter but with women who are recovering from being hurt in their previous relationships, you have to give them time and space. In this case, it’s just bad timing.
She already has a boyfriend.
You have everything she needs but she’s taken. This is bound to happen more often than you’d like. But it’s nothing to “cry” over, just move on or if you’re the persistent type who doesn’t mind being the “side order” granted she allows this, then by all means do what suits you.
Bad Hygiene
“Can we say B.O?” Nothing is more of a turn off than a guy who smells like feet and ass or who doesn’t take the time out to make sure his teeth are clean and his breath isn’t kicking. Before approaching a woman, make sure your hygiene is in tact because if you don’t you’re just an accident waiting to happen.